my parents would be dead without me
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my parents would be dead without me
a few weeks ago i had to pick up some cards and they wouldnt open the door. had to leave my shit in the garage. then a week ago they said they were running out if food. so i sent a link for a respirator and offered to order them it and some groceries. they refused. so yesterday i messaged them and said the stocks were recovering and i asked if they got their respirators and if they still needed help. again nothing. theyre like eating tuna for dinner or some shit. i think theyre losing their minds more so than usual cause they already have dementia
should i just order shit like potatoes and meat without their consent. theyre like 70+ lol.. its like im their parents and theyre the kids now
should i just order shit like potatoes and meat without their consent. theyre like 70+ lol.. its like im their parents and theyre the kids now
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Nobody cares...
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You would be dead if not for your parents
They could have told you to take a.home at 6 weeks old if they wanted to
They could have told you to take a.home at 6 weeks old if they wanted to
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Re: my parents would be dead without me
elartman1973 wrote:You would be dead if not for your parents
They could have told you to take a.home at 6 weeks old if they wanted to
is that english
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The great circle of life. Unfortunately, you will have to do this more and more for them unless you're a prick and stick them in assisted living.
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CleveTown™ wrote:The great circle of life. Unfortunately, you will have to do this more and more for them unless you're a prick and stick them in assisted living.
i figured when one of them dies they won't wanna live in a big house and will get a place near me. then i can drive them around when they need something and make sure they don't fall and break their hip. probly way cheaper. my grandfather stayed in a place that cost like 2500$ a month. they had some fancy dining shit every day with live performances. not all old folks homes are run down trash. most people just cheap out and get what they pay for
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well bless your soul for being their for one of your parents when the time comes.kennethgriffin24 wrote:CleveTown™ wrote:The great circle of life. Unfortunately, you will have to do this more and more for them unless you're a prick and stick them in assisted living.
i figured when one of them dies they won't wanna live in a big house and will get a place near me. then i can drive them around when they need something and make sure they don't fall and break their hip. probly way cheaper. my grandfather stayed in a place that cost like 2500$ a month. they had some fancy dining shit every day with live performances. not all old folks homes are run down trash. most people just cheap out and get what they pay for
and bro, assisted living is a HUGE gamble. And there are some dire consequences. It's all well and good when your parents have the money to support their lifestyle, food and facilities fees in an assisted living community, but should they run out of money while still alive guess what they do? They boot them out. Now they have no money and you are left to support them.
You have to die there for it to be worth it. Hence the gamble.
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CleveTown™ wrote:well bless your soul for being their for one of your parents when the time comes.kennethgriffin24 wrote:CleveTown™ wrote:The great circle of life. Unfortunately, you will have to do this more and more for them unless you're a prick and stick them in assisted living.
i figured when one of them dies they won't wanna live in a big house and will get a place near me. then i can drive them around when they need something and make sure they don't fall and break their hip. probly way cheaper. my grandfather stayed in a place that cost like 2500$ a month. they had some fancy dining shit every day with live performances. not all old folks homes are run down trash. most people just cheap out and get what they pay for
and bro, assisted living is a HUGE gamble. And there are some dire consequences. It's all well and good when your parents have the money to support their lifestyle, food and facilities fees in an assisted living community, but should they run out of money while still alive guess what they do? They boot them out. Now they have no money and you are left to support them.
You have to die there for it to be worth it. Hence the gamble.
that won't happen
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lol well then it's all good.kennethgriffin24 wrote:CleveTown™ wrote:well bless your soul for being their for one of your parents when the time comes.kennethgriffin24 wrote:
i figured when one of them dies they won't wanna live in a big house and will get a place near me. then i can drive them around when they need something and make sure they don't fall and break their hip. probly way cheaper. my grandfather stayed in a place that cost like 2500$ a month. they had some fancy dining shit every day with live performances. not all old folks homes are run down trash. most people just cheap out and get what they pay for
and bro, assisted living is a HUGE gamble. And there are some dire consequences. It's all well and good when your parents have the money to support their lifestyle, food and facilities fees in an assisted living community, but should they run out of money while still alive guess what they do? They boot them out. Now they have no money and you are left to support them.
You have to die there for it to be worth it. Hence the gamble.
that won't happen
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One of my parents is dead...
The Op wouldn't be able to cope or handle it..hes too much o a degenerate pussy who can't support himself
The Op wouldn't be able to cope or handle it..hes too much o a degenerate pussy who can't support himself
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elartman1973 wrote:One of my parents is dead...
The Op wouldn't be able to cope or handle it..hes too much o a degenerate pussy who can't support himself
whats there to handle. what exactly are you doing with your mom. are you giving her sponge baths?
i thought you were just changing light bulbs for her
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My moms a fully capable woman and doing unbelievably great for her age....she rarely needs help.with anythingkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote:One of my parents is dead...
The Op wouldn't be able to cope or handle it..hes too much o a degenerate pussy who can't support himself
whats there to handle. what exactly are you doing with your mom. are you giving her sponge baths?
i thought you were just changing light bulbs for her
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elartman1973 wrote:My moms a fully capable woman and doing unbelievably great for her age....she rarely needs help.with anythingkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote:One of my parents is dead...
The Op wouldn't be able to cope or handle it..hes too much o a degenerate pussy who can't support himself
whats there to handle. what exactly are you doing with your mom. are you giving her sponge baths?
i thought you were just changing light bulbs for her
then what are you making a fuss over. what can't i handle?
are you helping her up from the toilet?
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I've done all that for my dad when he was dying...stop complaining....wait til they are put on so many drugs for pain that they stop being coherent and don't even recognize anything and you realizing they are never going to ever againkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote:My moms a fully capable woman and doing unbelievably great for her age....she rarely needs help.with anythingkennethgriffin24 wrote:
whats there to handle. what exactly are you doing with your mom. are you giving her sponge baths?
i thought you were just changing light bulbs for her
then what are you making a fuss over. what can't i handle?
are you helping her up from the toilet?
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elartman1973 wrote:I've done all that for my dad when he was dying...stop complaining....wait til they are put on so many drugs for pain that they stop being coherent and don't even recognize anything and you realizing they are never going to ever againkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote: My moms a fully capable woman and doing unbelievably great for her age....she rarely needs help.with anything
then what are you making a fuss over. what can't i handle?
are you helping her up from the toilet?
you sound like you're about to cry
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Nope..didn't even cry then..I was the stoic one in the family..the leader..I was the guy dealing with the funeral.directors and.approving the plot and informing family members...that's me..the leaderkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote:I've done all that for my dad when he was dying...stop complaining....wait til they are put on so many drugs for pain that they stop being coherent and don't even recognize anything and you realizing they are never going to ever againkennethgriffin24 wrote:
then what are you making a fuss over. what can't i handle?
are you helping her up from the toilet?
you sound like you're about to cry
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elartman1973 wrote:Nope..didn't even cry then..I was the stoic one in the family..the leader..I was the guy dealing with the funeral.directors and.approving the plot and informing family members...that's me..the leaderkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote: I've done all that for my dad when he was dying...stop complaining....wait til they are put on so many drugs for pain that they stop being coherent and don't even recognize anything and you realizing they are never going to ever again
you sound like you're about to cry
It would have been ok to do both.
A person could handle the funeral arrangements, finances, phone calls to let other people know, obituaries, and everything else without blabbering all over the place... and still shed a tear at another time when in solace and remembering an important person.
But I get that some people may be bad at multi-tasking or may have autism that makes human emotions more difficult.
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Nope..I'm just use to death of people close to me and already had 10 months to.do all that ...it was a time to.celebrate that he was no longer in pain....over your headAbeVigodaLive wrote:elartman1973 wrote:Nope..didn't even cry then..I was the stoic one in the family..the leader..I was the guy dealing with the funeral.directors and.approving the plot and informing family members...that's me..the leaderkennethgriffin24 wrote:
you sound like you're about to cry
It would have been ok to do both.
A person could handle the funeral arrangements, finances, phone calls to let other people know, obituaries, and everything else without blabbering all over the place... and still shed a tear at another time when in solace and remembering an important person.
But I get that some people may be bad at multi-tasking or may have autism that makes human emotions more difficult.
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elartman1973 wrote:Nope..didn't even cry then..I was the stoic one in the family..the leader..I was the guy dealing with the funeral.directors and.approving the plot and informing family members...that's me..the leaderkennethgriffin24 wrote:elartman1973 wrote: I've done all that for my dad when he was dying...stop complaining....wait til they are put on so many drugs for pain that they stop being coherent and don't even recognize anything and you realizing they are never going to ever again
you sound like you're about to cry
this was you when you found out
then this was you late that night
and this was you the next morning
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